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  • Hank Nuwer & Hazing Culture

    Writer and author of several books including Hazing: Destroying Young Lives, Hank Nuwer, discusses the various forms that hazing can take, why he started tracking data of deaths and injuries, a history of tragic incidents, the functions and alternatives of hazing, how it varies between fraternities and sororities, and general discussions of group dynamics. 

    PLUS: Lola and Meagan discuss hearing voices, a wholesome bigfoot hunting trip gone wrong, the 1997 sci-fi flick Contact, why space is Lola's new religion, and how we might be living in a simulation!

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  • Anne - Psychosis, Delusions, & the Cult of Your Own Mind

    Today, our guest is a friend who we'll call Anne. We discuss the connection between psychosis and cults, the mental changes Anne experienced when her episode started, the delusions that grew stronger, how she felt like she was communicating with spirits, the paranoia that grew inside her, and how a psychiatric mental health professional helped pull her out of it. We also compare the similarities of Anne's experience with that of many cult leaders, how coming out of a paranoid delusion is similar to coming out of a cult belief, and why it can be wise NOT to directly attack the beliefs of someone experiencing a psychotic episode.

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  • Megan Elizabeth Cox - The Remnant Fellowship, Gwen Shamblin, and the Worship of Skinny

    Megan Elizabeth Cox–not to be confused with our Meagan Elizabeth–shares how she first started Gwen Shamblin’s weight loss program as a child, when her mom began listening to the cassette tapes in the 90s. She opens up about what it was like growing up in a family that was fixated on weight loss, how it felt meeting Shamblin, the high-haired woman behind the voice, and how the program evolved into the Remnant Fellowship, a full-fledged church centered around skinniness as righteousness.
    Megan tells the girls about the level of control the church had over her eating and even her thoughts, with Bible study sessions that required the members to weigh themselves, how she drifted in and out of the church during dark times in her life, and what made her finally realize she needed to leave the group for good.

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  • Danny Gold & Sean Williams - Mafias & Organized Crime

    Episdoe 34: From the Burmese mafia to Nigeria's Black Axe, journalists and hosts of The Underworld Podcast Danny Gold and Sean Williams compare the world's mafias, cults, and organized crime groups. They discuss their most harrowing reporting experiences, what groups they've been the most fascinated by, and the parallels between mafias and cults.

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  • Theo Pratt - Blue Dresses, Smacking Ladies, and an Isolated Compound: Surviving Gloriavale

    This week’s guest is Theo Pratt, survivor of Gloriavale, an isolated Christian cult hidden deep in rural New Zealand, and author of Unveiled: A Story of Surviving Gloriavale. She’ll talk about being raised on the strictly controlled commune where people were assigned new names, women wore identical dresses and head coverings, and children weren’t taught the real days of the week—or even where they were in the world.

    Theo shares about the leader Neville Cooper’s self-proclaimed divine authority, how “smacking ladies” kept the kids in line—and guards kept the compound controlled, and her rebellious streak that led her to planning an escape attempt on a tandem bicycle. And of course, the moment she realized she couldn’t stay, and what it felt like to step into the outside world she’d been taught would destroy her.

    SOURCES:

    Unveiled: A Story of Surviving Gloriavale

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  • Listener Stories - Independent Baptist Movement & Capoeira Teacher

    Two new listener stories! One from Shelly about her time in the Independent Baptist Movement under pastor Jack Hyles and the cult recovery work she is doing now, and one from Claire about the manipulation she experienced under her capoeira teacher.

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  • Lola's Mom - Mormon-Offshoot Cult

    Episode 1: Lola and Meagan interview Christine Marie, Lola's mom, about her and Lola's experiences believing in a self-proclaimed Mormon prophet. They discuss how they came to believe in him, their separation from each other, Christine's harrowing trafficking experience, and Lola's childhood memories of Keith Raniere from NXIVM.

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  • Frank Lyford - Heaven's Gate, Part 1: The Nomadic Lifestyle

    Episode 22: Lola & Meagan interview Frank Lyford, survivor of Heaven's Gate who left after 18 years--just a few years before discovering his friends and loved ones in the group had died by suicide. In part 1, he tells the girls how he began following the leaders Ti and Do, what it was like living a nomadic lifestyle with his "check partner," and what happened when they all settled in one place for "Class." They discuss being separated from the love of his life, how the rules became more strict and controlling, and how much darker things got after Ti got cancer. Stay tuned next week for part 2! www.trustmepod.com IG: @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @trustmecultpod @ohlalola

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  • Frank Meeink - From Neo-Nazism to Anti-Racism

    Episode 10: Meagan and Lola interview Frank Meeink, author of Autobiography of a Recovering Skinhead, about his journey from neo-Nazism as a teenager to present-day anti-racism. They discuss how he was indoctrinated into his white supremacist group, the crimes he committed that landed him in prison, the moment that changed everything for him, where he is now, and the importance of the Fourth Amendment.

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  • Lauren & John Matthias – The Daybells, Part 2: Buried Bodies & the Dark Triad

    Episode 57: In part two of their interview with hosts of the Hidden podcast, Lauren and Dr John Matthias, Lola and Meagan discuss the the chronology of the murders carried out by Chad & Lori Daybell, how a welfare check led to the discovery of two missing children, how Chad and Lori were living in an elaborate fiction, as well as the theories of "The Dark Triad" and "Rich Guy Syndrome."

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  • Felicia Rosario and Daniel Levin - Stolen Youth: Inside the Cult at Sarah Lawrence

    Survivor's of Larry Ray's sex cult Felicia and Daniel discuss how they came to meet Larry, how he leveraged his memory and connections to craft an image of authority, how Larry gained control of their lives under the guise of helping them, when the manipulation elevated into sexual abuse and violence, and how they're doing now that Larry is going to jail for the harm he has caused.

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    @TrustMeCultPod

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  • Bethany Joy Lenz - One Tree Hill, a Secret Cult, and Living a Double Life

    Today our guest is actor, musician, and now author Bethany Joy Lenz, whom we will just call Joy. Joy was the star of hit TV show One Tree Hill, and today she’s going to talk to us about how she was in a Christian cult the whole time she was filming the show. She’ll tell us about her upbringing and her career as a young actor, living in LA on her own and joining a small Bible study group that seemed like the perfect place to share a community with like-minded young Christian actors, and how a charismatic preacher named Les began showing up, leading the meetings, and changing everything.

    She’ll tell us about going to a house in Idaho they called the “God spa,” how she was drugged at the house (but did not realize until later), and how Les began to exert more and more control over her life - including isolating her from her family and taking over her finances, which were being drained without her knowledge the entire time she was working on a hit television show - and how the group’s hold over her led her to turning down her dream role in her dream Broadway play.

    Plus, how she discovered her money was gone and finally decided to leave.

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  • Michelle Dowd, Part 2 - From the Mountain to the Hospital to Forging Her Own Path

    In part two of their conversation with Michelle Dowd, Lola & Meagan dig into when Michelle and her family moved to the mountain, why discomfort was considered a virtue, getting sick with an autoimmune disease at the age of ten, spending many months in the hospital away from The Field and her family, what happened after her cult leader grandfather passed away, and how she left the group.

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    Learn more about Michelle's work here! https://mdowd.substack.com

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  • Esther & Lori - Current FLDS Members

    Episode 4: The girls interview Esther and Lori, two current members of the FLDS - aka Fundamentalist Mormons - who grew up in Short Creek, the polygamist community. They discuss how the community has changed since their prophet went to prison, and why families in the community are getting evicted from their homes. They also talk about what it's like to grow up with two mothers, raise eleven kids, and enter into - and exit out of - an arranged marriage. Plus: Esther's daughter's love for one special pop singer.

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  • Féminisme et Princesses Disney

    Cendrillon , Mulan , Tiana … Les princesses Disney sont-elles des modèles si parfait d'émancipation ? Oui oui même Mulan, Vaiana ou Elsa ? Un jour notre princesse féministe viendra t’elle ?

    Dans cet épisode avec la belle Julie, on analyse les 3 générations de nos héroïnes Disney prefs (ET ON SPOIL BEAUCOUP).
    On parle de toutes les princesses de l'écurie Disney ,de Blanche Neige qui rêvait du prince dont on ne connaissait même pas le nom , à Mirabelle qui est notre rejetée préférée dans Encanto, la fantastique famille Madrigal !

    Merci au studio KTK de nous avoir prêté leur studio !

    Sommaire :

    -01 minutes 26 : 1ère génération des Princesses Disney : Blanche Neige,Aurore (la Belle aux bois dormant),Cendrillon

    -11 minutes 40 : 2ème génération des Princesses Disney : Ariel (La petite sirène),Belle (la Belle et le bête),Jasmine (Aladdin),Pocahontas et Mulan

    -36 minutes 56 : 3ème génération des Princesses Disney : Tiana (La princesse et la grenouille),Raiponce,Mérida (Rebelle), Elsa et Anna (La reine des neiges),Vaiana,Mirabelle,Louisa et Isabella (Encanto : la fantastique famille Madrigal)

    Les ressources citées :

    Toutes notre enfance , adolescence , quotidien à regarder les films des princesses Disney
    Vidéo youtube : Pocahontas Was a Mistake, and Here’s Why ! Lindsay Ellis

    Recommandations :

    Livre : les dessous des princesses disney-Amy Tounkara

    Instagram: @reines_des_terres

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    Traduction des discours:
    "La faiblesse, la peur et le désespoir ont disparu. La force, le pouvoir et le courage ont pris le dessus" Malala Yousafzai ONU 2012
    "Je suis dans le rang des femmes dont les expressions sont considérées comme trop fortes, trop agressive "Emma Watson ONU 2014
    "Les femmes n'ont pas été écoutées ou crues, si elles osaient dire la vérité face aux pouvoirs des hommes. Mais ces temps-là, c'est fini."Oprah Winfrey Golden Globes 2018

    Sources musique transitions:
    [Blanche Neige-Un jour mon prince viendra-Disney]
    [La Belle aux Bois Dormant-J’en ai rêvé-Disney]
    [Cendrillon-Tendre Rêve-Disney]
    [La petite sirène-Partir là bas-Disney]
    [La belle et la bête-Belle-Disney]
    [Aladdin-Ce rêve bleu-Disney]
    [Pocahontas une légende indienne-L’air du vent-Disney]
    [Mulan-Reflexion-Disney]
    [La princesse et la grenouille-Au bout du rêve-Disney]
    [Raiponce-J’ai un rêve-Disney]
    [La reine des neiges-Libérée Délivrée-Disney]
    [Rebelle-extrait Mérida et l’épreuve du tir à l’arc-Disney]
    [Vaiana la légende du bout du monde-Le bleu lumière-Disney]
    [Que sais je faire d’autre ? de Encanto La fantastique famille Madrigal-Disney]
    [Ana Ka- Sous les apparences de Encanto La fantastique famille Madrigal-Disney]

    Sources musiques générique de début et de fin :
    [Disney-intro]
    [When you wish upon a star piano-Disney piano collection-composed by Hirohashi Makiko]
    [Ana Ka- Sous les apparences de Encanto La fantastique famille Madrigal-Disney]

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  • Intersectionnalité et Racisme

    Avertissement : Nous utilisons le terme femme voilée dans cet épisode, mais ce terme est maladroit. Il est plus adroit de dire femme qui porte le voile.

    Mais t’es de quelle origine ? Les femmes musulmanes, elles sont soumises aux hommes, elles peuvent pas être féministes et elles sont coincées de toute façon. Oh ca va chacun son opinion et puis moi, je vois pas les couleurs !

    Les réflexions racistes qu’on a reçu, sont aussi effrayantes que les sondages de la campagne présidentielle.

    Dans cet épisode, on parle de notre histoire vis-à-vis de nos origines, du racisme systémique, de l’intersectionnalité et du féminisme, de l’islamophobie, de la campagne présidentielle 2022…

    Enjoy ! Et merci au grand Charlie <3

    Sommaire :

    05 : 40 / INTRODUCTION : INTERSECTIONNALITE DEFINITION ET DEFINITION DU RACISME
    On discute de ce que veut dire l'intersectionnalité, de la représentation des personnes racisées, de nos expériences sur le racisme et du racisme "positif"...

    12 : 34 / LE SENTIMENT D'ETRE DIFFERENT.E, D'ETRE NON BLANC.HE ET D'ETRE MOITIE MOITIE
    On discute de notre métissage et notre origine qui a été source du phénomène "bête de foire", de la fétichisation...

    19 : 03 / LIEN AVEC LE FEMINISME ET L'INCLUSION DES PERSONNES NON BLANCHES
    On parle de notre point de vue sur la représentation racisées des personnes dans les luttes féminismes , de la représentation de la femme qui porte le voile, et charlie revient sur son expérience.

    29 : 36 / LIEN AVEC LES PRESIDENTIELLES On parle du contexte des présidentielles 2022 et et de leur politique discriminante envers les minorités racisées. Et que non la liberté d'expression n'a pas de sens, si elle oppresse d'autres personnes.

    40 : 21 / L'ISLAMOPHOBIE
    Charlie revient sur sa religion , sur les discriminations qu'iel a subi.e , sur les idées recues sur les musulman.es... Et on expose quelques ressources pour approfondir certains concepts.

    Les ressources citées :

    Vidéo Youtube :
    Sara Lou FEMINISME et ISLAM : et pourquoi pas ? Entretien avec Malika Hamidi

    Livres :
    Beurettes-un fantasme francais de Sarah Diffalah Salima Tenfiche
    Qu’est ce que l’intersectionnalité ? Dominations plurielles : sexe, classe et race- Myriam Boussahba
    Emmanuelle Delanoe,Sandeep Bakshi,Kimberle Crenshaw
    Genre et Féminismes au Moyen-Orient et au Maghreb-Abir Krefa, Amélie Le Renard
    Une minorité modèle ? Chinois de France et racisme anti-Asiatiques-Ya-Han Chuang

    Comptes Instagram :
    @sans blanc de rien
    @mais non c’est pas raciste
    @slash asian
    @la charge raciale
    @kiffe ta race

    Youtubeuse : dairing tia , marianne gllc

    Instagram: @reines_des_terres
    E-mail pro: reinesdesterreslepodcast@gmail.com

    Traduction des discours:
    "La faiblesse, la peur et le désespoir ont disparu. La force, le pouvoir et le courage ont pris le dessus" Malala Yousafzai ONU 2012
    "Je suis dans le rang des femmes dont les expressions sont considérées comme trop fortes, trop agressive "Emma Watson ONU 2014
    "Les femmes n'ont pas été écoutées ou crues, si elles osaient dire la vérité face aux pouvoirs des hommes. Mais ces temps-là, c'est fini."Oprah Winfrey Golden Globes 2018

    Bon ramadan à tous.tes !

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  • TDS et féminisme

    Invité du jour : une pute heureuse putain !
    Iris parle de son parcours, de son métier et de sa belle vision des choses sur le fait d’être TDS.
    Bonne écoute !

    Le compte insta d’iris : irisquinnbxl et les_perles_sms_dune_tds

    Musique de fin : GiedRé - Toutes des putes

    Instagram: @reines_des_terres
    E-mail pro: reinesdesterreslepodcast@gmail.com
    Traduction des discours:
    "La faiblesse, la peur et le désespoir ont disparu. La force, le pouvoir et le courage ont pris le dessus" Malala Yousafzai ONU 2012
    "Je suis dans le rang des femmes dont les expressions sont considérées comme trop fortes, trop agressive "Emma Watson ONU 2014
    "Les femmes n'ont pas été écoutées ou crues, si elles osaient dire la vérité face aux pouvoirs des hommes. Mais ces temps-là, c'est fini."Oprah Winfrey Golden Globes 2018

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  • Le genre shojo et sous genre magical girls avec Shojo Story

    Aujourd'hui avec le podcast Shojo story, on parle du genre Shojo et du sous genre magical girls en décortiquant les modèles de femmes fortes montrées dans ces œuvres, malheureusement trop peu coté en France.

    Merci à Célia et Natacha les intervenantes du podcast Shojo Story pour cet épisode très intéressant, qui rend justice au genre du manga Shojo !

    Sommaire :

    00 :50 : Présentation du podcast Shojo Story , présentation du genre shojo, du sous genre maho shojo magical girl , de d’autres sous genre de shojos

    06 : 07 : La place de la romance dans le shojo et magical girls, lien avec la société japonaise, schémas des magicals girls et shojos, sororité présente…

    15 : 20 : Le clan dans les magicals girls, les costumes ,les couleurs , les personnalités, lien avec la figure féministe de la sorcière

    25 : 09 : Pour en apprendre plus sur le genre quelques ressources et magicals girls à regarder

    Podcast invité Shojo Story :

    Leur linktree
    https://linktr.ee/shojostory

    Leur instagram
    shojostory
    https://www.instagram.com/shojostory/

    Leur épisode sur les magicals girls :
    Shojo Story - Episode 3 Magical girl
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=95ey9rEEG0o&t=4s

    Instagram: @reines_des_terres
    E-mail pro: reinesdesterreslepodcast@gmail.com
    Traduction des discours:
    "La faiblesse, la peur et le désespoir ont disparu. La force, le pouvoir et le courage ont pris le dessus" Malala Yousafzai ONU 2012
    "Je suis dans le rang des femmes dont les expressions sont considérées comme trop fortes, trop agressive "Emma Watson ONU 2014
    "Les femmes n'ont pas été écoutées ou crues, si elles osaient dire la vérité face aux pouvoirs des hommes. Mais ces temps-là, c'est fini."Oprah Winfrey Golden Globes 2018

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  • Les hommes cis dans le féminisme

    Tu as l’impression que les féministes sont extrêmes, anti hommes, et sexistes contre ces derniers dans leurs luttes ? Ce qui est fortement illogique ?

    Tu ressens une pression à être le plus fort, le plus intelligent, le plus viril ?

    Tu trouves que le mens are trash est méprisant ? Et qu’un livre qui a pour titre « Moi les hommes, je les déteste » est agressif ?

    Dégaine tes écouteurs, cet épisode est fait pour toi !

    Un cis homme blanc alias le streamer Maelarion est aujourd'hui l'invité de reines des terres ! On revient sur l’origine du sexisme et de ce qui en découle pour chaque genre ,on discute des injonctions à une masculinité socialement accepté, sur la misandrie, sur les comportements à adopter en tant que bon allié…

    Enjoy ! Et merci cher allié Maelarion <3

    Sommaire :

    01 : 21 /INTRODUCTION
    La partie mansplaining hihi , Maelarion revient sur l'origine des rôles genrés attribués dans notre société, qui entraine le sexisme.

    04 : 24 / INJONCTION A LA MASCULINITE Maelarion revient sur les injonctions qu'il a reçu , son observation dans les boys clubs de la masculinité toxique... C'est un peu la partie not all men ^^

    13 : 03 / CONSCIENCE DU SEXISME QU'ON A EN TANT QU'HOMME
    Maelarion revient sur la réalisation de son sexisme (ENFIN), de ses biais , de ses privilèges en tant qu'homme cis blanc...

    26 : 42 / CONSCIENCE QUE LE SEXISME EST PARTOUT ET QU'IL NE FAUT PAS SE SENTIR AGRESSER PAR LES FÉMINISTES On discute sur le sexisme qui est partout et ancré en nous. Que les hommes cis n'ont pas à se vexer quand on leur dit qu'ils sont sexistes , et qu'être sexiste ce n'est pas être stupide. On revient aussi sur les "agressions violentes" des féministes (mens are trash ect...)

    32 : 55 / STATISTIQUES
    On revient sur les statistiques des violences des hommes cis, et sur la différence entre la misandrie et la mysoginie. On parle aussi des incels.

    42 : 57 : LES HOMMES CIS NOS ALLIES DANS LA CAUSE
    On revient sur pourquoi on ne peut pas se dire féministe en tant qu'homme cis et que le féminisme ce n'est pas l'humanisme. On discute de la lecture de Maelarion sur Moi les hommes je les déteste , et sur des ressources pour approfondir certains concepts.

    52 : 50 OUVERTURE : MAELARION QUI RAMENE SA FRAISE SUR CELESTE (<3) Maelarion revient sur le jeu vidéo Celeste, très bon jeu parlant de l'acceptation de soi et de la progression !

    Les recommandations de Maelarion :
    Livre : Moi les hommes je les déteste - Pauline Harmange

    Autres ressources citées :

    Podcast :
    -Les couilles sur la table
    -Mansplaining

    Livres :
    -Je ne suis pas viril - Ben Nevert
    -Nos Mutineries Réponses imparables aux idées reçues sur le féminisme-Eve Cambreleng et Blanche Sabbat

    Jeu vidéo :
    -Celeste de Maddy Thorson

    Chaine Twitch de Maelarion : Maelarion__

    Instagram: @reines_des_terres
    E-mail pro: reinesdesterreslepodcast@gmail.com
    Traduction des discours:
    "La faiblesse, la peur et le désespoir ont disparu. La force, le pouvoir et le courage ont pris le dessus" Malala Yousafzai ONU 2012
    "Je suis dans le rang des femmes dont les expressions sont considérées comme trop fortes, trop agressive "Emma Watson ONU 2014
    "Les femmes n'ont pas été écoutées ou crues, si elles osaient dire la vérité face aux pouvoirs des hommes. Mais ces temps-là, c'est fini."Oprah Winfrey Golden Globes 2018
    [Lena Raine-prologue Official Celeste Soundtrack]
    [Lena Raine- first step Official Celeste Soundtrack]
    [Lena Raine- resurrections Official Celeste Sountrack]

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  • Jeux vidéos, twitch et féminisme

    Tu penses que les femmes et les jeux vidéos ne sont pas compatibles ? Que les streameuses ne sont là que grâce à leurs seins et non grâce à leurs skills ? Mais tfacon les jeux vidéos c'est pas féministes, ya que des jeux sexistes ? Cet épisode casse les préjugés sur l'art des jeux vidéos, et sur les streameuses, bien trop souvent méprisés. Avec l'intervention de sowee, qui nous montre une représentation positive des créatures divines de notre génération (aka les streameuses ou les meufs qui kiffent les jeux vidéos ...)

    La chaîne Twitch de Solène :
    https://www.twitch.tv/soweleen

    Les ressources citées :
    Streameuse :
    -AVAMind
    https://www.twitch.tv/avamind
    -Maghla
    https://www.twitch.tv/maghla
    son témoignage
    TW mention de viol, d’agressions et insultes sexistes et sexuelles , d’harcèlement sexistes et sexuelles
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9sLiQ7DKJ2g
    Autres témoignages
    TW mention de viol d’agressions et insultes sexistes et sexuelles , d’harcèlement sexistes et sexuelles
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J58MVyyStdI

    Instagram: @reines_des_terres
    E-mail pro: reinesdesterreslepodcast@gmail.com
    Traduction des discours:
    "La faiblesse, la peur et le désespoir ont disparu. La force, le pouvoir et le courage ont pris le dessus" Malala Yousafzai ONU 2012
    "Je suis dans le rang des femmes dont les expressions sont considérées comme trop fortes, trop agressive "Emma Watson ONU 2014
    "Les femmes n'ont pas été écoutées ou crues, si elles osaient dire la vérité face aux pouvoirs des hommes. Mais ces temps-là, c'est fini."Oprah Winfrey Golden Globes 2018

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  • La grossophobie

    Gros.se=0 sport , gros.se=0 santé, gros.se=gênant.e... Et surtout gros.se=discrimination ! Pour ce premier épisode , ma pote Jade est venue témoigner de la grossophobie qu'elle subie depuis petite. On discute de la définition de la grossophobie, de pourquoi c'est une oppression systémique, des traitements abominables et inutiles découlant de la diet culture,du mouvement body positive ...
    Ainsi que des clés pour s'épanouir en tant que gros.se , et niquer les injonctions de la minceur !

    Les ressources citées :
    -On ne nait pas grosse-Gabrielle Deydier
    -podcast The Last Quiche: Reset ton assiette : épisode La grossophobie
    -podcast Madmoizelle : Affichées n°13 Débat : On déconstruit la grossophobie (plus ou moins) latente véhiculée par les films et séries

    Instagram: @reines_des_terres
    E-mail pro: reinesdesterreslepodcast@gmail.com

    Traduction des discours:
    "La faiblesse, la peur et le désespoir ont disparu. La force, le pouvoir et le courage ont pris le dessus" Malala Yousafzai ONU 2012
    "Je suis dans le rang des femmes dont les expressions sont considérées comme trop fortes, trop agressive "Emma Watson ONU 2014
    "Les femmes n'ont pas été écoutées ou crues, si elles osaient dire la vérité face aux pouvoirs des hommes. Mais ces temps-là, c'est fini."Oprah Winfrey Golden Globes 2018

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  • La transidentité

    C'est quoi être trans ? Et puis est ce que les personnes trans peuvent vraiment être féministes ? Est ce que ce sont vraiment des femmes au fait ?
    On discute à 3 de ce questions autour de la transidentité, et on expose l'infâme transphobie qui règne en maitre dans notre CISteme.
    On parle aussi de ressources super cool pour déconstruire ses principes du siècle dernier sur le genre !

    Les ressources citées :
    -Livre : Une histoire de genre guide pour comprendre et défendre les transidentités-Lexie
    -Compte instagram : agressively_trans
    -Podcast : En toute Trans-parence

    Instagram: @reines_des_terres
    E-mail pro: reinesdesterreslepodcast@gmail.com

    Traduction des discours:
    "La faiblesse, la peur et le désespoir ont disparu. La force, le pouvoir et le courage ont pris le dessus" Malala Yousafzai ONU 2012
    "Je suis dans le rang des femmes dont les expressions sont considérées comme trop fortes, trop agressive "Emma Watson ONU 2014
    "Les femmes n'ont pas été écoutées ou crues, si elles osaient dire la vérité face aux pouvoirs des hommes. Mais ces temps-là, c'est fini."Oprah Winfrey Golden Globes 2018

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  • Féminisme et K POP

    Ah la K POP … pour certain.es c’est de l’art pour d’autres c’est juste un truc de gamines avec des asiatiques qui dansent comme des meufs… Et bah notre cher Morgan déconstruit notre occidentale gaze , pour discuter de la K POP , des différents groupes, des différentes générations, du sexisme , du queerbating et bien sûr en prenant en étude de cas les BTS (un petit groupe de K POP je sais pas si vous en avez entendu parlé voila quoi...)

    Army powa <3

    Artistes/musiques mentionnés

    BTS : War Of Hormone ; Boy in Luv ; Boy with Luv ; Blood, Sweat and Tears
    Seo Taiji and Boys
    Blackpink
    Straykids
    Aespa
    (G)I-dle : Tomboy

    Sources pour approfondir :

    -article géopolitique : Corée du Sud : quand l'antiféminisme est au cœur de l'élection présidentielle
    -article Médiapart : Pour ou contre le féminisme, la bataille de la présidentielle sud-coréenne
    -magasine EPJT En Corée du Sud, la lente progression des droits LGBT
    -article (en anglais) Pew research center The Global Divide on Homosexuality Persists

    Instagram: @reines_des_terres
    E-mail pro: reinesdesterreslepodcast@gmail.com

    Traduction des discours:
    "La faiblesse, la peur et le désespoir ont disparu. La force, le pouvoir et le courage ont pris le dessus" Malala Yousafzai ONU 2012
    "Je suis dans le rang des femmes dont les expressions sont considérées comme trop fortes, trop agressive "Emma Watson ONU 2014
    "Les femmes n'ont pas été écoutées ou crues, si elles osaient dire la vérité face aux pouvoirs des hommes. Mais ces temps-là, c'est fini."Oprah Winfrey Golden Globes 2018

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  • HAUNTED: Alcatraz

    Perched on a cold, windswept island in the middle of San Francisco Bay, Alcatraz was designed to be inescapable. And for most of its prisoners, it was. But even after the federal penitentiary closed in 1963, something appears to have stayed behind. Guards, tourists, and park rangers have reported unexplained sounds and shadowy figures in the corridors long after closing. What occupied these cellblocks in life, seems to have no interest in leaving after death.

     

    For a full list of sources, please visit: https://sosupernaturalpodcast.com/haunted-alcatraz

     

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  • Need a good RSS reader app.

  • A Telegram Arrived — And I Had to Choose Between My Head...

    A Telegram Arrived — And I Had to Choose Between My Head and My Heart. “On Boxing Day, I rang my father and told him my news. He was momentarily silent until his delayed shock was so great that he dropped his favourite coffee cup and I heard it smash.”

  • Friend is certainly a unique product that some people will hate, but I find the decisions fascinating. Each device is randomly assigned a voice and personality that you can’t change. Is it a real product or an experiment? I guess both!

  • Wired has a story about the new Friend 2.0 pendant and its creator, Avi Schiffmann:

    That analog component is important to Schiffmann. He says he doesn’t have an internet connection in his home. He listens to music on a record player. He’s shooting a documentary about himself on Kodak Ektachrome.

  • RSC dev log — Conversations

    Cette semaine, j’ai retravaillé la manière dont RSC affiche les conversations.

    Le fil principal montre les publications qui démarrent une discussion, avec le nombre de réponses. On peut ensuite ouvrir la conversation complète sans mélanger toutes les réponses dans le fil.

  • Axon Insists Its AI Makes Police Reports Easier. Nothing Suggests It Makes Them Any *Better*

    It’s not that AI can’t be useful or helpful in certain contexts. And this is certainly not to say AI can’t take over repetitive tasks to allow people to focus on things that need more of human touch. The problem with AI isn’t necessarily AI itself. It’s that far too many tech companies are pitching […]
  • &#8220; A new Airbus passenger jet completed an...

    A new Airbus passenger jet completed an ultra-long test flight between Australia and France lasting more than 24 hours—paving the way for the world’s longest nonstop commercial flights starting up next year.” Wow.

  • This video posted on X about OpenAI’s mission is very good. Feels personal and real. Jason says:

    i wanted to capture what it feels like to work here, what our mission means to me, and why you should join us.

    OpenAI should run some version of this as an official ad. Even some of the companies that I dislike the most (like Meta) have thousands of people who believe in their work and are trying to do something meaningful.

  • The Drawing Room With Mo Welch

    Comedian Mo Welch has a new show on PBS called The Drawing Room, where she interviews people while she draws them (and her guests draw her). What a great idea for a show.

    The first three episodes are live already: Brett Goldstein, Sarah Silverman, and violinist Vijay Gupta; here’s the premiere episode with Goldstein:

    Each episode is only 10-12 minutes long. The lineup of guests for the rest of the season include Demi Adejuyigbe, Tig Notaro, Adam Conover, and Aparna Nancherla.

    Tags: art · Brett Goldstein · interviews · Mo Welch · PBS · TV · video

  • I ♥ RSS

  • The Beauty of Doing Nothing Together . &#8220;What...

    The Beauty of Doing Nothing Together. “What you’re doing hardly matters. What matters is inviting someone into the ordinary parts of your life instead of waiting for an occasion that feels worthy of an invitation.”

  • The Worst Person You Know Just Filed A Good First Amendment Lawsuit Against A Very Badly Drafted Nudify App Ban

    There’s been a bunch of news this week regarding Minnesota’s new law that purports to prohibit “nudification” technology, and the fact that xAI has sued to have the law blocked as unconstitutional. A few things need to be said upfront, because it’s very, very easy to just say the tech is terrible, that Elon Musk […]
  • Daily Deal: Build A Weather App With Ruby On Rails

    It’s time you get up to speed with Ruby on Rails! This full-stack web framework is all about letting you build applications quickly. Its elegance, flexibility, and speed make Ruby on Rails a popular choice for businesses, so taking the time to master it can pay huge dividends down the road. In this course, you’ll […]
  • Jason Snell getting ready for Apple’s quarterly results later today, when Tim Cook will appear on his 90th financial call for Apple:

    That’s more than two decades of talking on the phone once a quarter to financial analysts. He’s probably earned a break.

  • The Hell Mouth

    Volcanologist Laszlo Kestay took this photo of a lava skylight in 1996 while conducting field work at Kīlauea on Hawaiʻi. The hardened lava flows strongly resemble doomed souls being sucked into hell or the damned escaping the underworld.

    Tags: geology · hawaii · hell · Laszlo Kestay · photography · volcanoes

  • I was inspired by Dave's "I Love RSS" post Tuesday and built a directory for people that love RSS. It's called https://iheartrss.com/ and leverages many of the goodies we're promoting like an OPML subscription list and a blogroll powered by feedland. :-)

    Let me know if you have any questions or issues with the site. I'll try to keep on eye on the thread.

  • This flow:

    1. Have a thought.
    2. Start writing a short post about it.
    3. It’s not working. Expand into a full-length blog post.
    4. Still no good. Delete the draft and copy the text into a note.
    5. Months later, pull the draft into a better blog post about a larger topic.

    In other words, always write things down.

  • In The Middle Of A War, The Trump Administration Has Cut National Security Staffing In Half

    The on-again, off-again, new forever war we’ve been cursed with because Donald Trump felt people just weren’t paying attention to him enough is going to be headache for years to come. Trump assumes that if he acts like a bully, everyone will just back down. But now he’s dealing with a regime just as willing […]
  • Bullshit Jobs (2013)

    “Technology has been marshaled, if anything, to figure out ways to make us all work more. In order to achieve this, jobs have had to be created that are, effectively, pointless. Huge swathes of people, in Europe and North America in particular, spend their entire working lives performing tasks they secretly believe do not really need to be performed. … Given the choice between less hours and more toys and pleasures, we’ve collectively chosen the latter.”

    David Graeber is a Professor of Anthropology at the London School of Economics.

  • Toot.community is shutting down

    Toot.community is shutting down

    by Jorijn Schrijvershof

    Sadly, toot.community is shutting down in October. This post talks about why Jorijn has made that decision.

    Read post ➡

    So much of this post resonated with me and aligned closely with my reasons to step away from Fosstodon. Being a fediverse server admin is a thankless job and as Jorijn says:

    I find myself feeling more angry or discouraged after spending time as an admin, and that’s not what I want from social media or a volunteer project.

    Over a year on since I stepped away from the Fosstodon team, I'm much happier now, but the experience has tainted my experience of social media. These days I probably visit Fosstodon maybe once per week. Every post I write is written here, on my site, and syndicated over there. I feel this is much better for me personally, as it keeps me away from the latest drama.

    When I do go visit the timeline, it's usually fun because it's fleeting. I don't have time to get involved in the latest drama. I go, check notifications, quickly peruse the timeline, and leave. It's a much healthier way of engaging, I think.

    More broadly, I think the issue with admin and mod burnout on the fediverse is what will limit it in the long run. It's almost entirely propped up by volunteers, who don't want to be involved with the drama, or be attacked for making a decision you don't agree with. And as a result, servers like toot.community fall by the wayside.

    I don't know what the solution is here - I actually don't think there is one. It's a fundamental limitation of the way in which the fediverse is architected and as a result, another great server is gone. 😔

    Thanks for reading this post via RSS. RSS is ace, and so are you. ❤️

    You can reply to this post by email, or leave a comment.

  • The legacy of the Luddite movement changes when you zoom...

    The legacy of the Luddite movement changes when you zoom out a bit. “The development of cooperatives around the world is another story that should not end too abruptly. We could still be weaving it today.”

  • Had fun last night hacking on a new gadget project with my son. Still a long way to go… Hoping to take apart this iPod and 3D print new guts for it. It might not work! Next step is soldering the microphone to test.

  • Inside an AI TikTok Shop Slop Factory That Shills Supplements Recalled By the FDA

    How a company called Rosabella used AI content to market its supplements: "If you’re trying to sell health products to a 50-year-old, well, make your avatar 50 years old."
  • Un homme courageux mais imprévoyant

  • LinkedIn Introduces a 'Seems Like AI Slop' Button

    Following 404 Media's reporting on how LinkedIn is full of AI slop, the platform is giving users a chance to report it when they see it.
  • While I do think we’re in an AI bubble of sorts and that many of the current VC-funded companies will fail, I also think we’re only at the beginning of how much AI will grow and impact society. It makes for a strange tension.

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